For a reason.

People come into our lives for many, many reasons. They either change us by the way they inspire us, the way they love us, or by the way they hurt us. Some people are ours to keep, while others pass through because their purpose in our story is to teach how to let go. They leave us memories, maybe some bruises on our heart, and reasons to remember who they were and what they meant to us. What we don't realize, is that nobody comes in our life without a reason. Even though we would like to hold on to the ones we feel do the most for us, we cannot force fate. People do not leave us to be cruel. People leave us because that is what they were meant to do. Some people do not, as much as we long and want them to be, belong in our lives. They are not where we are supposed to be, and we are not where they are supposed to be. Everyone wants to find the missing piece that will make us whole and when you find that piece, you will know. You cannot hate someone for leaving you because your pieces do not match, regardless of how hard the two of you try. In the end, you have to acknowledge the favor they are doing you. They leave your life to find their own, so that you can do the same. And if this life happens to bring you back together somewhere in the future, you will know where your heart has been all along; Right in front of you.

The point is, there isn't one. People are people and you have to forgive them for not being a permanent part in your story. We can't tie another persons soul to our own, and we shouldn't have to. Appreciate the lessons they have taught you and the memories they have left you with and when you think about them, do it with all the goodness in your heart and smile. The best is yet to come, and by them leaving, you are one step closer to finding it.



Love you readers.


xoxo.
Bshawty.